Your Messenger message:

"Sir Tony, how are you po? Can't sleep tonight and this came to my mind--- when is the best time kaya for me to get married? Or is it even recommended?"


My reply:

Hello ___________!

It is time to get married when:

--You have achieved mental and emotional maturity.
--You have the finances to support a family and are able to keep them free from want.
--You are truly in love with the person you want to marry, and can see yourselves growing old together.
--You are able to give up everything, including your old life, your old self, and your old dreams, for the sake of your spouse and your children.
--You are certain that the change in civil status is permanent and irreversible.
--You are incapable of sexual diversions.
--You know your true identity and your spouse knows your true identity.
--You have the right habitation for living with a spouse and your future children.

You were unable to sleep probably because you have not achieved any of the above.